While I can’t personally vouch for each resource here, I’ve tried to only include those that only have your best interest in mind. I’ll add to it as I find others.
Gender Infinity’s Resource Finder (I’ve spoken with the founder) and they have information on
GayChurch.org’s list of individual churches (probably all would welcome trans as well)
BelieveOutLoud.com also has a list of churches
Northstarlds.org is an excellent resource if you’re struggling within the Mormon church.