Blog Archive

• The Silence of the Sheep (12/3/2022)
• Ignorance Isn’t Bliss, It’s Life-Threatening (10/16/2022)
• God Cried Today (8/31/2022)
• The “Welcoming” Church is Dangerous (1/14/2022)
• We Need a “Church of the Balls” (12/15/2021)
• GRACE is a Two-Way Street (9/18/2021)
• Morality Isn’t Always Engraved in Stone (8/15/2021)
• A Tale of Two Churches (7/30/2021)
• What Must I NOT do to be Saved? (3/27/2021)
• Are We God’s Children, Or His Puppets? (2/14/2021)
• What? Boys in Girl’s Sports? (2/2/2021)
• The Sin of Not Being Like You (11/26/2020)
• The Book is 2 Years Old, and FREE this Week! (10/12/2020)
• A Simple Conversation – It’s Not Hard (9/4/2020)
• I’m Sorry Church, But I’m Angry! (8/9/2020)
• The Fear of Understanding (7/4/2020)
• Unconditional Love, Unconditional Acceptance (Not so easy) (6/5/2020)
• Hate, Sorrow, Love and Joy (5/25/2020)
• It’s Worse Than Coronavirus (5/2/2020)
• Looking Forward to Making Parole (4/19/2020)
• You’re Not Gonna Like “Therefore” (4/13/2020)
• CoronaVirus vs. Suicide? It made me think. (4/2/2020)
• Is it Really “Biblical Teaching”? Always? Every Word? (3/24/2020)
• So Sad HE Hasn’t Changed His Heart (11/7/2019)
• Absolute Truth (10/24/2019)
• My Book is ONE YEAR OLD! (10/8/2019)
• How Do We Know This Isn’t YOUR Church? (9/1/2019)
• My Life is Finally Over. I’m Committing Suicide. (7/27/2019)
• I Choose Life! (7/21/2019)
• Conservative or Progressive, You’re a CHRISTIAN (both of you) (6/30/2019)
• The Day My Future Changed (6/5/2019)
• What Do We Do With the Rule Breakers? (5/23/2019)
• Mom and Family (5/12/2019)
• Who’s in Charge of the Stonings at Your Church? (5/4/2019)
• Fitting in Vs. Belonging (4/5/2019)
• We Can Do Better Church! (3/25/2019)
• A Man at My Church Died (2/15/2019)
• I’m Crazy! I’m Giving Away My Book! (2/4/2019)
• The Audiobook is HERE! (12/20/2018)
• Are YOU Ready to Come Out of the Closet? (12/8/2018)
• Holidays and Lonliness (11/16/2018)
• Beware of the “but…” (11/9/2018)
• Excerpt From Chapter 19: “God Doesn’t Make Mistakes” (9/27/2018)
• Excerpt From Chapter 10: “God Doesn’t Make Mistakes” (9/17/2018)
• Excerpt From Chapter 12: “God Doesn’t Make Mistakes” (9/12/2018)
• The Reviews are In! (9/1/2018)
• God is Full of Surprises (8/12/2018)
• Even When We Know, We Often Don’t (7/22/2018)
• Excerpt From Chapter One: “God Doesn’t Make Mistakes” (6/29/2018)
• A Site for the Book (6/22/2018)
• 2 Week Update on My Book (6/14/2018)
• Are You Changing the Church, or Just Complaining About It? (5/21/2018)
• God Doesn’t Have Boobs (4/15/2018)
• Being “Cut-Out” As a Christian (4/6/2018)
• Disappointing People Doesn’t Mean You’re Disappointing God (3/18/2018)
• The Church of Pain (3/13/2018)
• Is it Christianity or Behavior Modification? (3/12/2018)
• I Hate Not Being Able to See What’s Ahead! (3/11/2018)
• Today’s Church, Its Pharisees and the Outcasts (2/10/2018)
• I’ll Take Sticks and Stones Anytime! (1/11/2018)
• It’s a New Year With New Hopes and Dreams (12/31/2017)
• I Needed Someone to Cry With! (12/5/2017)
• The Love of a Father (11/25/2017)
• Moral Superiority is Neither Moral nor Superior (11/20/2017)
• I Want to be a Gracist! (11/5/2017)
• It’s Not About Sex – It’s About Integrity (10/22/2017)
• Just KNOW that God LOVES You! (10/10/2017)
• Is it Really Your Cross to Bear? (9/21/2017)
• What to Do When the Solution is the Problem? (9/10/2017)
• Here’s Why Caring About People Sucks! (9/1/2017)
• That’s Not God Saying You’ll Burn in Hell! (8/22/2017)
• I’m So Dumb! (8/19/2017)
• “Love your Enemies”? Why? They’re Mean to Me! (8/2/2017)
• Friendships and Discipleship (7/9/2017)
• An Open Letter to Pastors Everywhere (6/30/2017)
• That SOB Must Love Father’s Day! (6/18/2017)
• Crowds Don’t Cure Loneliness – Relationships Do (6/12/2017)
• What Do You See When You Look Backward? (5/27/2017)
• It’s Science, So Buckle Up Kids! (5/24/2017)
• While People Set You Aside, God Sets You Apart (5/19/2017)
• A Plea to Parents From a Former Child (5/6/2017)
• Spiritual Mom Day (5/6/2017)
• The Christian Tug of War is Breaking My Heart (4/24/2017)
• “Father, forgive them…” (4/18/2017)
• Have You Ever Felt Spiritually Neutered? (4/11/2017)
• NEVER Give Up on Family (4/2/2017)
• Being Transgender can Suck – But Whatcha’ Gonna Do? (3/27/2017)
• Rejection Sucks! (3/8/2017)
• Open and Transparent Can be Scary and Paralyzing (2/21/2017)
• Reaching the Finish Line! (2/16/2017)
• I First Thought it Was a Curse, But Now I Know it’s a Gift (2/2/2017)
• Scars are a Proof of Life (1/25/2017)
• The Storm in Your Life May Be Preparing You For an Opportunity (1/24/2017)
• I Like it Simple, So Don’t Tell Me It’s Complicated! (1/11/2017)
• Life. Just in One Day. (1/4/2017)
• Even Alone for the Holidays, You can Bless Another (12/20/2016)
• Beware Church, Christians Walk Amongst You! (12/14/2016)
• An Open Letter to my Mom (12/7/2016)
• You Can’t Not Be Who You Are (12/2/2016)
• The Evangelical Church is NOT the Devil and God Doesn’t Belong to a Political Party (11/14/2016)
• We Should Weep and Pray for What is Happening In the Church (11/6/2016)
• Yes, I Killed Someone, But it Was Him or Me! (10/25/2016)
• Don’t be Surprised When Your Straight and Narrow Road Takes a Sudden Turn (10/22/2016)
• Don’t Blame God Because People are Jerks! (10/9/2016)
• You ARE an Original (9/27/2016)
• Are You Ecclesiophobic? (9/17/2016)
• Little Whiney Me (9/11/2016)
• WOULD YOU SIT DOWN WITH ME OVER A CUP OF COFFEE? (9/10/2016)
• May I Correct/Inform My Non-Transgender Friends? A Brief Tutorial (9/5/2016)
• A Friend Opens Her Heart and TRUTH Spills Out (9/4/2016)
• It’s Easy to Feel Anger and Hate and Then Look for Who You Should Blame (9/3/2016)
• I Need Your Help (8/31/2016)
• It’s Time for a Family Talk – A Bonus Guest Writer!!! (8/30/2016)
• Being Transgender is NOT Your Identity, Your Identity is in Christ (8/29/2016)
• When Acquaintances Become Friends and God is just well—God (8/26/2016)
• When Someone Leaves Your Church Because of You (8/24/2016)
• UNCONDITIONAL Love and Acceptance CAN’T Have Conditions (8/19/2016)
• It is NOT the Job of the Church to Drive People Away from God! (8/13/2016)
• People Can’t Re-Wire Themselves, It’s Been Tried. What’s Done is Done. (7/30/2016)
• What I Learned From My Pinky Toe (7/22/2016)
• You Can Stop Condemning Yourself Now (7/10/2016)
• You DO Understand You’re Not Normal Don’t You? (7/4/2016)
• Being KNOWN is a Blessing from God (6/25/2016)
• Why Do I Not Give Personal Details? (6/20/2016)
• Then God Said, “Let Us Make Lemonade” (6/15/2016)
• Rejected By Your Family? Go Get a New One! (6/14/2016)
• When Christians Think They’re God (6/6/2016)
• My Heart for the Church (5/28/2016)
• Christians Opposed to Transgender People Don’t Automatically HATE! (5/22/2016)
• “Testing the Water” at Your Church (5/20/2016)
• My Letter to the Governor of Texas over the BATHROOM Issue (5/19/2016)
• My Parents are Alive but, well? …I Don’t Know (5/19/2016)
• If You’re Been Badly Hurt by Church, You’re Not Alone (5/13/2016)
• Why Are We Christians at WAR with Each Other? (5/8/2016)
• Christians, We Need a Lot of Work on Our Tongue (5/6/2016)
• I Can Promise You This, Part of Your Theology is WRONG! (5/3/2016)
• Only Lucifer is Lucifer (4/29/2016)
• Laws Won’t Stop Criminals or Predators (4/28/2016)
• God has a Cruel Sense of Humor (4/18/2016)
• Christians, we’re a FAMILY. All of us. Like it or Not! (4/16/2016)